Relationships are built on mutual trust and understanding, jealousy and expectations, create a fissure, which eventually leads to a breakup. Women, at times, make some common relationship blunders, without realizing they are hazardous to their commitment. We bring to you most common mistakes which build up to a break up.
Don't get overtly jealous
If you are overtly jealous, it is time to ponder over the causes. Jealousy constitutes as one of the main causes for a breakup. Checking your guy's phone, Facebook or internet history tells him you don't trust him and that you're jealous, which will cause an altercation.
Don't try to change him
How can you fall in love with someone, whose personality traits you obviously dislike. The habits, or the behaviour of your partner, if irks you so much that you want them to change, poses a potent question. Why and how did you fall in love with them in the first place? If the man is a real man who's comfortable with who he is, flaws or not, he'll probably want to end it eventually.
Don't expect your partner to react to things, the way you want them to. He is a separate individual, with thinking capacity different from yours. In reality, men are not anything like you. Understanding this and applying it to your relationship will save you a lot of headaches.
If you diss him, and point out his mistakes at the drop of a hat, make sure you acknowledge his kindness too. A little gratitude goes a long way. Most people want to feel appreciated. If you are thankful, be sure to show it. Rather than pointing out where he falls short, point out the ways in which he makes your life better.
Don't stop living your life
Just because you are in a relationship, don't stop living your own life. Women usually commit the mistake of ignoring their social life, while focusing on their partner's. It will eventually make you clingy, depending on your man for company. Men, on the other hand entertain no such transformations.
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